I was chatting with one of my bestfriend the other day. We were talking about life...decisions in life and how all this while my friends seem to think that I have a perfect life.
That had me thinking. Do I have a perfect life? Is there such thing like a 'perfect life'?
I have a family of my own.
Hubby my pillar of strength.
My parents who are always there for me
My two brothers who are very sporting & loving towards their only sister hehe...
My bestfriends....Han, Olyn, Nik, Parv, Loady & Nolin (though I haven't seen Nolin for quite sometime now heheh)...you guys are the best...
My blogger friends with whom I share information and stuffs.....especially on motherhood... this is where I learn a lot about life...about being just an ordinary human being....about the ups and downs in marriage....everything...
We (read:hubby & I) may have our ups & downs in our lives but that is part and parcel of life and that's what makes us stronger. It may not be bed of roses all the time but we have promised to each other......no matter what we will try our best to over come any obstacles, Insya Allah. Hubby & I, we're a team.
And....ooo yeah...to answer a question that I know some may ponder....No...I don't regret settling down and start a family. My only regret is that I was not brave and bold enough to go out and see the world back then. Although I know Hubby never stops me from achieving my career dreams (if not I won't be here today kan kan) but I've set my priorities.
So there you go....to 'you'...yeah 'you'....do what you think is best for yourself. Don't let others influence your decision. You know that whatever your decision or your next step will be....I will always support you. And...life is never easy dear. When you have an easy life, you'll tend to take people or things for granted. But when you strive and work hard in your life, you'll appreciate things more. :)
5 comments:
hello my dear darling zai :) i think ive already decide what im going to do next, well sort of, i have a PLAN :p but i couldnt have done it without your support, knowing that my best friends are behind me, and always so encouraging and never judgmental, so thank you! thank you very much :) miss you lots, babe!
Hmm i don't know about perfect life. i would define my life as "acceptable life". I'm grateful with what i have. But sometimes of course we want more kan. So its motivate me to work harder.
Good that your blog this. It makes all of us grateful with what we have.
The grass is greener on the other side, glad you have such positive outlook. Thats the way!
I have an entry for you, to make up for the no-recipe Mincemeat Pie
nique: u go girl... :)
dot: for the family...we have to work harder kan kan...Insya Allah...it will be fruitful..
swahili: i try my best to be positive...but sometimes...ooo sometimes....its kinda hard...
yeeyyy a recipe entry...tq tq... ;)
beautiful entry :) u cant put it better than this!
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